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Prepare Before You Choose Custom Anniversary Invitations

By Lessie Kaufman


Having a conversation with your spouse to prepare before you shop is a smart plan for getting what you want without spending extra time, stress, or money. Designing beautiful custom anniversary invitations can be fun, if you prepare with a quick chat. Before you head into the design studio or stationary store, consider these key points.

A stationary designer who sells custom invitations is an expert, but also a salesperson. It is their job to give you what you want, but they will probably suggest their most expensive offerings because of quality and style. Because salespeople work on commission, they will try and help you make a quick decision so that they can serve other customers quickly. This can make decisions stressful if you aren't prepared.

Have a mental picture of what your event will be like. The style of your invitation should match the party itself. Would you rather have a formal catered bash, or a casual potluck with intimate friends? There's no wrong answer, but whatever you choose, let your invitation be an appropriate cue to your guests about what kind of party is in store.

Find photos online or in magazines that reflect the vibe you are trying to create at your party. Share these pictures with the salesperson, so he or she can suggest the right elements for your invitation. From paper stock to design details, leverage the designer's expertise by clearly communicating the feeling you are trying to achieve.

In addition to bringing photos from magazines or the internet, work with your spouse to come up with a short list of descriptive words. These should describe both the anniversary party, and the feeling of your ideal invitations. For example, do you want something warm and relaxed, or elaborate and fancy? Share a list of five to ten adjectives with the salesperson, to help them guide you.

You and your partner should agree about your budget before you set foot in a store. Have a conversation together about the specific maximum dollar amount you can spend per invitation. Having that clarity will let you work with the salesperson to reach your goals together, and will minimize confusion and frustration for all of you.

It's good to decide on an exit strategy with your spouse, in case things go sour. If the vendor isn't the right fit, or if you just need some private time to talk over options, be ready to leave the store discretely and quickly. A simple code like "Let's check the parking meter before it runs out" gives you an excuse to leave without making a scene. Not every negotiation needs to happen in front of a salesperson, so you might need a break or some one on one conversation.

Designing unique invitations with your romantic partner can be a fun celebration in itself. Let your stationary choices reflect the special bond you share, with both of your tastes and personalities in the mix. The shopping process can be a great chance to collaborate and make something you're both proud of.




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