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Love The Imperfect Man

By Evan Sanders


He's not going to be perfect. Actually he might be totally different than you believed he would ever be. He's going to screw up, fail over and over, and lose himself sometimes. He is going to be in doubt, insecure occasionally and dissatisfy you. His fluidity at times when the ocean roars will baffle you. His eerie silence when life rips the rug out from him will make you wonder where he went. Did he leave? Did he drift away into some faraway land? He will, from time to time, disappear into his anger, frustration, and anxiety. He will suffer and wrench inside his soul. He's going to need to leave for a bit, going off on his own to answer questions only tranquility will truly provide him with. He will have times where he is weak in front of you, cry even, and lose the strength he had because he has truly been powerful in the world too long. He will undoubtedly go back and forth in his choices on occasion and you will question if he will ever make them. He will do all these things and plenty more.

But when you have a man, a real man, his compass will always come back true.

If you love the man, he will be your mountain, the unmovable rock in your life when you need him. He is going to be your biggest fan, no matter the circumstance or situation, he's going to be there for you in any possible way he can. If you truly love the man in him, he will stand in light of your chaos, waves crashing about him, and irrespective of how much the blackness of your feelings and emotions appear to test him, he'll always stand strong. If you care for the man, he will push you to dream as big as you can and help you to create the overall picture. He will bring something out in you that you never thought you might have in your life. If you adore the man, he will help you bloom and moment by moment, bring you out of your darkest moods into open love. If you love the man he's going to be your equal, realizing that together you will always be more than you could ever be apart. If you adore the man he is going to love you as much as he adores life itself, way down knowing you're his joy and he is your light.

He's going to want to be your hero, your companion, the king to the queen you are. If you really love the man you will waken grand passions from him, the deepest feelings he can muster and he will share them with you because somewhere way down inside in his heart he really does trust you.

When you have a real man in your life, he'll be certain inside all of this undeniable uncertainty. He's going to disappear to find his answers and come back to you repeatedly. He will be able to writhe with his decisions and then make them, moving forward with conviction and bring you along the ride for the best adventures of your life. He'll feel his insecurity and doubt, and bring forth a confidence that may settle your heart. If you love the this imperfect man, he'll look at you and not try to say anything, because he can feel into you and already knows what your heart desires. If you adore the man, he is going to do anything for you. He will cross oceans for you. He will move mountains for you. It certainly may not seem like you thought it would, but if you really love the man in him, he will bring a love out in you that may light your soul on fire, and together, you can change the world.




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