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The Right Thing To Do During The Next Speed Dating Orange County Party

By Freida Michael


It will take as little as three seconds for your crush during a speed date to like or dislike you. This means you must be precise in making an impression during the next speed dating Orange County party. With your target partner meeting as many as ten other people in such a short time, it is important to make your act memorable.

It is important to say the right things during the seven or so minutes you will have with the stranger. Avoid saying much in order to give your partner an opportunity to speak too. Instead of talking about movies or work, talk about the places you have been and where you intend to go. This gives an impression of an outgoing personality who is more attractive.

Keep away from any negative statement either about the person, yourself, your work, etc. The potential partner sited across the table will not enjoy a pity party about your shortcomings and troubles. You will appear needy and be a real turnoff. Be bubbly, shinning and happy with a lot of hope and expectations in future. Be genuine in your personality and avoid going into detail about yourself. There will be time for that in future.

Express interest, respect and concern in your date. Pay attention to his or her words, actions, expressions and emotions. Curiosity enables the person to open up and talk about him or herself. Compliment him or her for an achievement and try to remember as much as possible of what was said. Your performance will make the date memorable and afford you a second chance.

Remember to mention your expectations about the date. Orange County has different faiths, professions, racial backgrounds, etc. If such issues matter in a relationship, remember to mention them so that your intended partner knows clearly what you want. Such preferences and expectations will determine the value of a second date. If the basics are not met, it does not make any sense to organize a second date.

Though positivity is encouraged during a date, it should not be to the level of bragging or overconfidence. Overconfident persons appear insecure and insincere. Mentioning some of your weaknesses or shortcomings makes you human and therefore real. Be the independent person most people are looking for in a partner. Emotional and insincere personality is a real turnoff which reduces the possibility of getting that important second date.

A smile will go a long way into making you a pleasant partner and earning you a second date. Smiling makes your personality friendly and comfortable. It is all a potential partner will want to see in order to make a decision on whether to schedule another date. Do not turn the date into an interview session. Instead, strike a friendly conversation that will provide an opportunity for a second date.

There is no opportunity to exchange contacts during a speed date. The procedure is to either express interest in going for another date or ignore the provision. If both parties expressed interest in each other, the organizer will provide you with contact details. The honors is therefore on you to make an impression and earn the second date.




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