Stop hunting for your other half.
What?!
That probably does sound utterly paradoxical to anything you've ever heard before, but searching for your "other half" unfortunately does mean that you are not basically a whole person in the first instance. It suggests, that you really do not have everything inside you already that you need to live a very cheerful life. Isn't life about really finding ourselves and who we are deep within?
As an alternative look out for the person who wants to be your teammate. Look for someone who challenges you to be something larger than you've ever been before. Look for someone that believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they want support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side...not your missing piece.
Because in life, things always appear and disappear. Even the amazing relationships that stand the test of time at last end and you must go on living your life. The individual that is going to be there for you for a long period of time would also wish that you really wouldn't be damaged to pieces when they're gone. So be a whole person who can love another in total. Be the best version you can be for yourself and allow for another to dream with you on how to change the world.
When you can work on yourself in life and find someone who wants to do the same, then you can meet together as two complete lovers who appreciate and value each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are broken without someone there? Does not this open you up to significant amounts of growth and the facility to reach your full potential?
Find your teammate, you will be much better off. These relationships bloom.
What?!
That probably does sound utterly paradoxical to anything you've ever heard before, but searching for your "other half" unfortunately does mean that you are not basically a whole person in the first instance. It suggests, that you really do not have everything inside you already that you need to live a very cheerful life. Isn't life about really finding ourselves and who we are deep within?
As an alternative look out for the person who wants to be your teammate. Look for someone who challenges you to be something larger than you've ever been before. Look for someone that believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they want support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side...not your missing piece.
Because in life, things always appear and disappear. Even the amazing relationships that stand the test of time at last end and you must go on living your life. The individual that is going to be there for you for a long period of time would also wish that you really wouldn't be damaged to pieces when they're gone. So be a whole person who can love another in total. Be the best version you can be for yourself and allow for another to dream with you on how to change the world.
When you can work on yourself in life and find someone who wants to do the same, then you can meet together as two complete lovers who appreciate and value each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are broken without someone there? Does not this open you up to significant amounts of growth and the facility to reach your full potential?
Find your teammate, you will be much better off. These relationships bloom.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Time to move on from an old relationship, start working on yourself, and diving into what life has to offer? Dig into these quotes about moving on for some great perspective.